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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">Hi, Dillon,
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">I was at a session at ALA where the presenter (Debra Fine, The Art of Small Talk) gave a good example of a way to end a conversation with a long-winded speaker. She always
acknowledges what the speaker is saying and states that she has just a minute before she has to complete another task. She then asks the speaker a pointed question about what they are talking about so they have the last word. After that minute, she politely
stops conversation repeating that she’s needed somewhere else and walks away thanking the person for sharing. She is careful to actually do the thing she told the person she had to do to maintain her credibility and save the relationship.
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">Questions were something like: I can see that you love gardening, what brings you the most satisfaction? Or, You are obviously so proud of your grandchild, tell me one thing
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">I hope this helps!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">Denise Hooks<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">MMLC<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">(810) 232-7119<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif">From:</span></b><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif"> michlib-l-bounces@mcls.org [mailto:michlib-l-bounces@mcls.org]
<b>On Behalf Of </b>Dillon Geshel<br>
<b>Sent:</b> Wednesday, July 27, 2016 11:34 AM<br>
<b>To:</b> Michlib-l@mcls.org<br>
<b>Subject:</b> [Michlib-l] Staff Disengagement Training<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt">I'm looking for any resources that help library staff deal with disengaging from patron conversations, or finding an appropriate exit point when a conversation is difficult to end.<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt">Thanks,<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Dillon<br clear="all">
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<p class="MsoNormal">Dillon Geshel<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Library Director<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Portage Lake District Library<o:p></o:p></p>
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